Now i have used the temporary ralay solution for halv a year without draining the battery. So I am sure this problem was from the power window relay.
I have found several of an older versions of this relay on yunkyard , but not the one I should have.
Anyone out there that know if 443 951 257 ( without anny letter ) will work i insead of 443 959 257 D wihout anny rewiring in the car . The pinnout is almost the same , but there is som differents , for example , KR is renamed TKII and an additional pin is TKIII

Bengt